For many after a Separation your world becomes topsy-turvy if not falling apart.
Where every so often, you come to realise that your life isn't working the way you'd like, no matter how much effort you make.
Hence, you may need to get into sorting mode by invoking your black and white side of your personality. This is not always easy for some and may take some practice and getting used to.
It requires you to ask yourself such questions as:
Q. "What do I want in my life and what don't I?"
Q. "Who and what's giving me support and what isn't?"
Q. "What's good for me giving me nourishment and what's not?"
Essentially, you have to 'Separate the wheat from the chaff' and get rid of all the dead wood and whatever else is hindering and not helping you on your path to a healthier and more fun life.
This may appear hard but it must be done for you own survival and to live life to the full.
Go get the pruning clippers and take to that dead looking rose bush and watch it shoot up again into something beautiful.
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