Family Court: When will you grow up?

By Michael Knight

Thursday 16 July 2009

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When people say "grow up" it can often mean for you to reach a level of maturity and self assuredness about yourself, that what you're doing is right. Develop a strong faith in who you are as a good person, mum or dad, and you're well on the way to being set free from the shackles of fear and all those games and trickery many in the Family Court industry often play.

The Family Court Game

Lawyers, psychologists, and anyone else you are silly to pay money to, are all part of the game — your game. Trouble is, are you aware that they will always win and you will always lose? What is this game you are playing, it sounds like some form of suicide or Russian roulette?

You need to ask yourself the BIG question, why are you handing your children, money, assets and life over to these people? What is wrong with you, are you suffering a mental illness?

What happens is, because you haven't quite grown up, you are allowing your fear, naivety and dumbfounded willingness to believe and follow the wrong authority, such as lawyers, courts and the legal system. This system and people are not their for you or your children's short or long term welfare, it's simply a money deriving business, and quite a lucrative one at that at over six billion dollars a year being churned over. You may have even heard the term "the business of the court".

The trickery they use to con you into handing your life's savings over to them is a clever one, let's give them credit for that. However, do you really want to run yourself dry of finances that you and your children are forced into survival mode and poverty, scurrying for a roof over your head and not knowing where your next feed will be coming from? Especially, if you had a huge nest egg in the beginning, this would be especially tragic.

I think you get the picture, so what now?

Empowerment and knowledge

If you really want to smarten your act up, empower yourself by seeking out the right knowledge for this game, else stay where you are and keep handing over the money. At the end mind you, when all the assets are carved up, and your lawyer's fees have taken a big chunk from your share, if not all of it, see how you feel then. What value did you get from wasting all that money? The answers will most likely be none, very little or lawyers made things a whole lot worse. Thinking and planning long term is imperative in this game, because when you come out of this ghastly Separation mess, and you will, you will hopefully have a compulsion to rebuild and resume some resemblance of a normal life.

How does it all begin?

Simply, by allowing yourself to be sucked into their filthy game of mind altering tricks. In other words, by allowing yourself to place your attention and any significance on their legal letters, correspondence, phone calls and meetings with lawyers and court appearances on a repetitive basis, your mind is then primed and programmed to be in the legal battle.

The catalyst to submerge your thinking and actions into the legal world are usually your irrational emotions, intensified feelings of fear, pain, guilt, your ego and self image.

You have now become part of the legal machine, not as a winning player but as a food source to provide nourishment for others who you allow to prey on your family.

As time goes by your ability to think calmly and clear will be diminished, your normal life outside this legal activity may become non existent, and you most likely succumb to their every whim, bluff, immoral rules, way of thinking and acting. All in all it's a recipe for disaster, losing yourself in this cloud of smoke and mirrors and world of magic, trickery and deception. Forget Harry Potter just associate yourself with the legal system and you will learn all about it.

It's all quite disgusting actually. You will now be in a justifying and defending mindset, with you possibly thinking about obtaining a quick course in family law, however this smattering of knowledge will do you absolutely no good ever in your life. You may even think about signing up to do a course in law or psychology costing you a pretty packet. Sheesh... then they've really got you.

So are you a good Mum or Dad?

Well here's the rub. You don't need any person or authority to tell you you are a good mum or dad.

Yes, you may briefly think or say yes I know this, but hey if you're still stuck in the legal system and feeling powerless, this belief has not truly penetrated your subconscious in order for it to be an automatic response with every decision you make.

You need to tell yourself "I am a good person and mum or dad" a hundred times over.

Please write the above down and stick it on your fridge, doors, walls, computer screen, car and anywhere you will see it, day and night, so you realise once and for all, you are a good person who cares for their children the right way, including keeping all the finances from slipping away foolishly, and needs no approval from anyone outside yourself. If you get this corrected in your mind your 90% of the way home.

If you are going through a Separation and Divorce do whatever it takes to lose the fear fast!

No one in the legal system is out to help or save you. If you think this will happen, you better come and join me at the Mad Hatter's Tea Party.

So who's wrong and at fault? You are! Why?
By allowing yourself to be drawn into this foolish game of legal trickery when you don't need to.

When will you catch on and grow up?
Let us pray it's sooner than later because your children need you, and you deserve to enjoy a proper and full life.

With love, kindness and peace
Michael