When one doesn't firstly open up their heart and then listen to the other person's heart, that relationship is usually doomed and destined for a Separation or Divorce, whether they both know it or not.
Listening to each others heart and really connecting with one another is one of the most fundamental secrets to keeping a relationship fresh and alive. People will stay together, maybe forever. However, the alternative is grim, as a depletion of love and vitality will almost certainly ensure a gradual death of your heart, and the relationship.
Some people are strong, aware and know what they want and bail out of the relationship, hopefully after much discussion and many attempts to prise that ol' heart open. That's if the relationship and the other person means anything at all.
Others stay in the relationship in the hope it will work out. Usually these people are eternal optimists, lack awareness, are frightened, stay in it for the sake of the kids, convince themselves everything is ok, it doesn't matter or they're being silly — a state of denial if you prefer, or it can be about security, money, or simply the belief or image of being together, a couple or family.
Who's to judge what's right or wrong, perhaps it simply boils down to how much pain your heart can bear, and whether you value yourself enough and strong enough to implement positive change, either by yourself or reaching out before it's too late. I guess the way people dress it up doesn't really matter, it's their life, except when it comes to yourself, then it becomes a real sad and heart breaking affair.
So is it imperative that us heart people find another heart person to be in a relationship with? I think so —
PS.If you're a heart person please enjoy the song below — hope you like it.
Just gotta love this song. *Remember to view it in full screen
Powerful song that may make you shed a tear if watched at the right moment, such as your heart breaking after a relationship ending due to a lack of any heartfelt connection or togetherness. Thank you Rod, Amy and the sax player, baritone was it?
With love
Michael 
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i did not picture you as someone who would listen to Rod..... or was it Amy who had your attention?????
It was a video that can be confronting to those of us wondering how to move on; perhaps still wanting that passionate relationship with a supporting partner one day,yet whether to risk that pain again.
Thanks for reminding me of that passion
The 'eternal optimists' who stay can often end up depressed, as a result of denial and have to also overcome this
keep up the great support you offer us all!
with thanks